What leads you to divorce? Our Love and War man's files indicate that most experts list this pattern: 1. "You're determined to have your own way." 2. "So you get into fights." 3. "You run from the fights." 4. "That leads you to a desolate feeling that you're not really a part of the marriage anymore." 5. "You get the growing notion in self-defense that you're too good for your partner." 6. "You give in to the urge to degrade your partner in order to build up that aforementioned defensive notion of your own superiority."
L.M. BOYD
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...But of these sophisms and elenchs of merchandise I skill not...
Milton, Areopagitica
Except he had found the
standing sea-rock that even this last
Temptation breaks on; quieter than death but lovelier; peace
that quiets the desire even of praising it.
Jeffers, Meditation On Saviors
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