Starhawk: The Boy Who Kissed the Soldier "You are amazing," I tell Hanin. "I am completely exhausted: you're six months pregnant, it1s your house that has just been trashed, and you1re able to stand there cooking for all of us." Hanin shrugs. "For us, this is normal," she says. And this is where I would like to end this story, celebrating the resilience of these women, full of faith in their power to renew their lives again and again. But the story doesn't end here.